Lily (#662) 10-04-14

I was drawn to Lily's hat, and she was happy to participate. But when I looked at her closely, I was sure that I had seen (and photographed?) her before. But she said no, and when I heard the name I knew that it must have been a coincidence. And then I was proud to learn that her name had four letters, so that I would not make the mistake of a double “L”. So proud that I forgot if the last letter was a 'y' or an 'i'. Can't win. Well, for now she's Lily.

Anyway, she is from Boulder Colorado. After enduring Florida heat and humidity, she prefers Colorado and may go back. When we reviewed the images on the LCD, amazingly we both preferred the same one. That seldom happens. I gave her a card and got her e-mail address. The image has been sent.

Bob

Paul (#661) 10-03-14

Paul was sitting on the ground, on the edge of the sidewalk, playing his guitar and singing. A cardboard box neat to him contained a few small bills. He stayed in Bradenton for four years, tending to his mother. When she passed two years ago, he relocated to Sarasota. He said that recent times have been a bit tough, as it had rained almost every afternoon.

He and another bachelor are saving up to buy a sailboat. They only need $200 more. The boat has no engine, but it has a generator and small air conditioner (an absolute necessity!). They plan to live on a mooring in Sarasota Bay.

I asked him about recent good times. A couple of weeks earlier, Paul was performing in front of a Starbucks, two blocks away. A Bentley pulled up, and suddenly Jerry Springer was standing next to Paul.

“Hello, Mr. Springer.”

“I'm Jerry. Do you know any Beetles songs?”

“Yes sir, I know them all!”

Yep, that's pretty neat.

Bob

Daniel (#660) 10-02-14

Daniel was eating at an outside table in Bradenton, FL. The light was nice; he was undercover. And he was in front of a blank pink wall – I liked it. When I explained the project, and that my main goal was to meet people, he was intrigued and was happy to participate.

Daniel is from Queens, NY (same as I) and went to college in upstate New York. He came to Bradenton at age 25 and likes it here. Daniel considers himself very lucky, in that he is in the financial industry and does his work online. He can live anywhere that there is an Internet connection. Otherwise he feels that the area is not too business friendly. He made a sweeping motion around the street, “Where are the suits and ties? Most residents work in infrastructure, like teachers, police, and healthcare. There aren't many large business here hiring.”

I guess that Daniel IS lucky.

Bob

Frank and Kellie (#659) 10-01-14

I saw them from across the street; we were walking in the same direction. I liked their body language, so I picked up the pace to double time before crossing. I wanted to be in front of them on their side of the street. I don't like approaching people from behind.

When I asked for my favor, I was surprised that Frank seemed reserved, Kellie is the one who was all for it. But as soon as I asked Frank to 'not smile for the camera', this was what I got. I said, “You don't have to look THAT unhappy,” but that just fueled the theatrics. I asked Kellie if Frank always looked that way. “Yep, that's him”, she deadpanned.

When it was her turn, I took a quick look and did something I almost never do, I let her keep the glasses on. By pure luck, her eyes were sharp, there was no lens reflection, and the frames did not cut through the iris'.

They both recently graduated from Sarasota High School. I asked what the do now – Frank answered, “Look for lunch.” Kellie took my card and was interested in getting a copy of the images. Frank, who knows.

Bob



Victor (#658) 09-30-14

Victor was sitting under a roof next to a convince store in St. Petersburg. He offered no resistance to being photographer, but was very shy and quite. Friendly, but quiet. He moved to St. Perersburg from New York City 15 years ago. As A child, I had lived in Queens. Victor has lived in Brooklin, Manhattan, the Bronx, Staten Island and Mt. Vernon – everywhere BUT Queens. He is very glad to have made the move to Florida.

Victor is retired from the New York Transit Authority. Had he not retired when he did, Victor wold have been on duty during 9/11, which surely would have been a life changer.

An hour later, I passed by the same location. Victor was still there, reading a newspaper. I think that he had found his spot.

Bob

Emily (#657) 09-29-14

While photographing a young lady seated at an outdoor table in St. Petersburg, Emily (at the next table) called over, “Well, you're in luck. You're going to get two.” Emily was not shy. She lives in tampa, but was originally from New Iberia, LA. I mentioned how a few french surnames are so common in Cajun country, like Broussard, Tibideaux, and Breaux. Emily said that her brother's last name is Breaux. Quite a coincidence, her Bro' is Breaux.

She has lived all over, including the Netherlands (her father's native country), and Nigeria. Her passion is a non-profit organization called Khusi Hona. It aids orphans in India, and Emily's card identifies her as the CHO – Chief Happiness Officer. The organization's website is HERE. Emily has an essay on the site HERE.

She loved the idea of meeting strangers for a photo. We promised to hook-up on Facebook (we have), and she asked for a copy of the image. It immediately appeared as her Facebook avatar, always an 'upper' for me.

Bob

Kalin (#656) 09-28-14

I saw Kalin from a distance and liked his cool look. The hat didn't hurt. I had to maneuver around several people and wait my turn, as he spoke with a few people. So I was surprised when he turned out to be quite quiet and shy; he agreed to be photographed somewhat reluctantly.

Kalin is from Colorado and attends State College of Florida, in Bradenton. I asked how he found that school from Colorado. “They have a good golf team; I got a scholarship.” Good reason. Then I noticed that his backpack said “Titleist.” Duh!

Bob

Christian and John (#655) 09-17-14

Sarasota is a fairly upscale city, and not a particularly cheap place to live. So it amazes me how many homeless there are, and how many are scam artists and panhandlers. One downtown business has a sign out front that says that 93% of all money received by panhandlers goes to drugs and alcohol. I don't know how accurate that number is, but the message is clear.

Christian

Christian

John

John

So, once again, I was approached by a very amateurish pair of scammers. “We live across the street from New College and are out of gas. This is so embarrassing, we are good responsible guys.” I said, “OK. Save your breath, I'll make you a deal”, and explained the project. I got some shots and they got a few dollars. Hopefully more than 7% went for food. John's breath betrayed alcohol, and his demeanor was pretty goofy. Christian seemed under control.

As Kurt Vonnegut used to say, “and so it goes...”

Bob

Jennifer and Sebastian (Not!) (#654) 09-25-14

Jennifer and Sebastian were sitting on a park bench conversing in fluent Spanish. The area was unshaded, but useable due to a dense overcast sky. When I explained 100Strangers, both seemed genuinely interested. Jennifer is a student at nearby Riverview High School, Sebastian at the State College of Florida, about 10 miles away.

After photographing Jennifer, she liked the images on the LCD. So did Sebastian. But then he shocked me by declining to be photographer. “Why not?” I won't look as good as Jennifer (laugh).” In fact, Sebastian is a very handsome young man.

As I parted, I told Jennifer to work on him – teach him to be brave. Both laughed.

Bob

Marty (#653) 09-24-14

I saw Marty sitting at the same outdoor bar as #651, Chanel. The light is so nice there, and his hair really popped out. When I went through my speech, he shrugged and said, “I guess so.” After a few shots I showed them on the LCD. Again he shrugged, and was not interested in getting a copy. “I see what I look like in the mirror every day.” Other than that he is from Louisiana, I got no feedback.

A few months ago I went through a very difficult personal situation; the camera stayed on the shelf for 9 weeks. When I finally was able to pick it up and approach people, I figured that it would be part of my 'recovery.' Actually it has, but it has also been a sobering reality check. My rejection rate is considerably higher than before, and many folks who allow a photo offer weak, shallow, encounters. I say the same words, but apparently there is something in my eyes, or body language, that betrays my emotions. Future success (or lack thereof) will probably be a good barometer of my inner state.

Now for this image, I made my usual plea, “Please do not 'say cheese' for the camera.” Marty immediately assumed this gesture, which I love. But it accurately reflects his interest in what I was doing.

Bob

Hannah and Wes (#652) 09-23-14

Hannah and Wes were sitting outdoors, sipping coffee while Hannah worked on a laptop. When I approached them, Hannah was a bit reticent, but Wes was all for it. As often happens, the more positive person drags along the more shy.

Hannah is from Memphis, and moved to Sarasota as a high school junior. She is now a junior at the Ringling College of Art and Design. Her major is Digital Film. She is producing a short video and Wes is the 'star'.

But Wes is not a thespian by trade. He is studying herpetology at the State College of Florida, in Bradenton. He hopes to transfer to the University of South Florida or the University of Florida. Ultimately he would like to work at a zoo. Wes has numerous family members who have a theater background, so he is carrying on a tradition.

Bob

Chanel (#651) 09-22-14

Chanel was seated at a bar that was open to the street. Due to the light, this has become one of my favorite places to meet people. When I explained my intention, she laughed and asked “Why?” I further explained the project and showed my photostream on my phone.

She was born and raised in Sarasota, but graduated from high school in West Palm Beach. For a short time, she lived in Venice, near me. On this day her daughter was with her Dad, and Chanel had a little 'down time'.

After I got the shot, she laughed again and said, “And why do you keep doing this?” I said that I was retired, don't have the temperament for golf or the healthy knees for tennis, so this is my hobby. I said, “I am an introvert. I would never go around meeting nice people like you without a camera and this project.” And that's the truth.

Bob

Maralyn and Allie (#650) 09-21-14

Maralyn was standing in front of Whole Foods with her neat headband and pink cellphone in hand. And camo shorts, that seemed a disconnect. So I told her that her outfit seemed interesting. She seemed amazed at the project, but did not equivocate. Maralyn is a Sarasota native, and Sarasota High School graduate.

I showed her my Flickr stream on the phone and she said that her daughter would be coming out soon. So I quickly got to work. Maralyn has children 20, 12, 10 and 5 years old. I didn't bother to ask what she does in her spare time. We looked at the images on the LCD and I said, “Oh, this expression may be a bit severe.” She replied, “Nope, my kids say that I'm rigid. That's me.”

Then Allie (the 12 year old) came out of the store. I was easily able to get her into a picture. Maralyn might be rigid, but I thought that it was nice that Allie was not embarrassed by this connection.

Bob

Asia (#649) 09-20-14

Asia was sitting on a bench in downtown Tampa. I was immediately drawn to her bling and headgear.

Asia is from New Jersey, and moved to Tampa two years ago to attend college. She went to the Art Institute of Tampa to study in their program of Culinary Arts. She just graduated a few months ago.

I asked if she found a job in her field, she just pointed to a restaurant 50 feet away. She does the baking and cake decorating, exactly what she wanted to do. How cool is that?

Bob

Ryan (#648) 09-18-14

Ryan was walking toward me with his friend, Mia. When I asked for a favor, they had no reservations about cooperating. But they showed no interest in the project, and neither wanted to see their image on the LCD. Both are native Sarasotans, and graduated from local high schools.

I have to reexamine my approach. I am having a run of strangers who agree to the photograph, but are not approachable for a meaningful encounter. Maybe 50% have been this way recently. Maybe I need someone else to watch me and look for weak points in my approach.

Bob

Ava (#647) 09-17-14

Ava had no reservations about being photographed. She said that she has her picture taken a lot, I'm not surprised. Luckily for me, she was sitting, sipping a drink in an area of quiet light.

Ava is originally from Hawaii, but moved here five years ago because of her parents. She refers Hawaii, but it would be difficult to move back for financial reasons.

I admire Ava. She is a beautiful woman and knows that she is not 21 and has a few wrinkles. She knows who she is, and is “comfortable in her own skin.” Refreshing.

Bob

Keepa (#646) 09-16-14

Keepa was sitting in front of an open air bar. This is becoming one of my favorite stranger-seeking sites, as the light is good, and it does seem to attract some interesting characters. Like Keepa.

When he said his name, I asked “K-E-E-P-A?”, and was amazed that I had guessed correctly. He is from Estonia, having emigrated to the U.S. 15 years ago. He is now proud to be a U.S. citizen. His daughter is here, but Keepa's brother is still in Estonia. He worries about that. He is convinced that Vladimir Putin will annex the Ukraine, and that the Baltic States are in peril.

Keepa feels that Obama is starting to act like a Russian, spying on cellphone conversations and with police looking more and more like the military. Still, he does support a strong police force, like the National Guard.

Keepa has done some portrait work himself, but always candid. He is familiar with Photoshop and often crops individual faces out of crowds.

Bob



Alex (#645) 09-15-14

I was heading back to the car when I looked over my shoulder at a Whole Foods store. Alex was sitting in front, sipping a drink. Her hair caught my eye. I told her so, and she was glad to be photographed.

She is from Anchorage Alaska, about as far from Sarasota as you can get in the U.S. Alex is spending two years in the Sarasota Ballet Company, she is half way through. I asked how she found this company from so far away. Her teacher in Alaska attended a conference in Canada and met the director of the Sarasota group. He told her about Alex and the rest is history.

I told Alex that that my wife and I had spent three days in Anchorage, and had breakfast each morning in the Snow City Cafe. Her face brightened, she knew the place well. The menu is great, but expect to wait on line – in the cold.

I asked if the Florida heat bothered her. Alex's smile vanished and her eyes rolled up, “YESSS!”

Bob



Levi (#644) 09-13-14

As I walked down main St. a young man with two bandaged hands approached me and asked a favor. Levi asked if he could borrow my cell phone to call his boss. I did, but it rang for 30 seconds and Levi did not connect. He turned to me and said, “Now I can't get any work today. Could you spare a few dollars so that I can stay in the Salvation Army shelter tonight?” I'm not sure what work he could accomplish with two bandaged hands, but I helped him out.

When I asked his name he pulled out a card with his name, the middle name was Polson. He seemed amazed that I pronounced it correctly. Levi said that everyone pronounces it “Polston.” It didn't seem too tough to me.

He loved the image on the LCD. Levi said that it looked like a high school pic. He gave me an e-mail address and I later sent it along. I met him again a week later and he had yet to look at the message. I showed this posted pic on my phone, and again he (seemed) to love it.

Bob



Joel and the Ham (#643) 09-12-14

I waited for service at my favorite coffee shop in Sarasota, Pastry Art. The barista, Joel asked if my camera was digital. Oh yeah. We agreed that film was dead (this should ruffle a few feathers). I said that I had a cousin Joel who is a coffee connoisseur and part time barista in Asheville. This Joel was unimpressed. I suspect that he is more of a money than coffee connoisseur. Then Joel asked what I liked to photograph, and I explained 100 Strangers. He was reluctant until I told him that his coworker, Noah, had participated. He agreed as I changer the ISO to 640 – I should have gone higher.

As I tried to get a serious shot, his coworker, Stephanie, appeared out of nowhere and got into the shot. Clearly she was not camera shy. Finally I convinced her to give Joel some room, and I got the shot.

Of course Steph was more than happy to be photographed. She's a native, and a Sarasota High School graduate. Having worked at Pastry Art for a whopping three days, I would say that she fits right in.

Bob